There are many levels of friendship and each one is different
for each person. I have yet to find that perfect friendship that has everything
I want. I have known deep loneliness. I
looked for that friend who could be the cure all to my depression and
loneliness but I never found them. I guess you can say I have kind of given up
on ever finding that perfect best friend. Instead I have started settling into
the friendships I have.
Those relationships are the ones that really test
me. I am tested every day by a cat who always seems to want attention when I am
busy or too tried. Every day she reminds me that I have to take time for others
if I want them to take time for me. One of my human friends reminds me that
sometimes opposites can attract and become good friends. I see her personality
and I am always reminded of why I live my life the way I do.
The real nature of friendship is that you have to
treat it like a marriage. You pick someone and you become stuck to each other.
You just don’t leave them because of some little annoying habit they have. You
have to learn to deal with it.
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